Discovering the affair
Infidelity causes so much devastation in a relationship as it undermines the foundation of relationship itself. You may find yourself questioning;
I never thought my partner would cheat on me. Who are they really?
How could they have done this to me? Our family?
What else have they been dishonest or deceptive about?
Has the affair ended?
How can I ever trust them again?
Can our relationship be fixed and do I even want to give my partner another chance?
How can my partner say they love me and have an affair?
Is there a way we can heal from this?
When an affair is first discovered, both partners can feel as if their whole world has fallen apart and salvaging a relationship after the effects of an affair can be very challenging. Many relationships can survive infidelity and ending the relationship doesn't have to be the only outcome after infidelity has been discovered. With relationship counselling, time and a willingness to heal, many couples emerge from infidelity with a stronger and more honest relationship than they had before.
Working with a qualified couple’s counsellor and relationship expert, like myself, can help you and your partner put the pieces of your relationship back together, gain understanding, rebuild trust, intimacy and create the loving and healthy relationship you’ve always dreamed of. I provide relationship counselling for residents of Sydney, particularly those living in the Hills district, Hawkesbury district and the Blacktown district.
How I can help
Decide if the relationship is worth saving.
Learn the steps needed to recover from the trauma of an affair.
Explore why the affair occurred in the first place.
Identify and work through any underlying marital problems.
Learn how to rebuild and strengthen your relationship.
Rebuild the trust that has been lost.
Gain tools to communicate honestly, effectively and in a way that leaves you both feeling understood and accepted.
What makes me different from other counsellors
I am a qualified and registered counsellor and relationship expert with many years of experience. I have taken my counselling background and created a unique blend of counselling that is a little more robust and practical than traditional therapy to help you achieve your counselling goals faster. I use a mixture of counselling techniques, psychoeducation and practical exercises which are specific to your situation.
I do not take a one size fits all approach to counselling. My education and clinical work provides me with a vast amount of knowledge and experience to draw upon. I believe in evidence based science and data, rather than following whatever theory is popular at the time.
What can you expect
Through my infidelity counselling services you can have:
Healing and a way to move forward, together.
Ways to learn how to forgive your partner.
The tools to create open, safe and honest communication, so you feel truly heard, understood and validated by your partner.
A blueprint on what is needed by both partners to recover from the affair.
A restored sense of closeness and intimacy that comes from a safe, trusting, and committed relationship.
To learn tools to address conflict and have it resolved in a way that brings you closer together.
A renewed sexual vitality with your partner.
A trusting, meaningful and safe relationship with your partner.
Rebates are available through some private health insurance companies. Please check your policy to see if you are eligible for a rebate.
Working with me
I offer online infidelity counselling via Zoom (for individuals and couples) as well as in person session at my office located in Baulkham Hills, New South Wales, Australia.
In Person and Zoom sessions run for 60 minutes and cost $150.00AUD
If you have questions or would like to make sure we are a good fit in working together, please call 0410 549 930 for a free, 10 minute consultation to discuss your needs and how I can help you.
If you are ready to work with me on healing and rebuilding your relationship, then click on the button below to make an appointment.
What my clients say
“I thought I was going to lose my husband affair I had an affair. We were both devastated and had no idea what to do. My husband didn’t know if he could ever forgive me and I was confused about if I wanted to stay married, or leave and be with my affair partner. Working with Hailee was what we really needed to help us through the worst moment in our marriage. We felt understood and never judged by her. She made us feel so comfortable and we were able to open up in a way that we never had with each other before. We saved our marriage and are in a really good place now.”
Are you going through a tough time?
Are you unsure of what direction to take?
Feeling unhappy and overwhelmed?
Have you fallen out of love?
Are you unsure of how to get back on track?
Sick of arguing all the time?